Wedding Ceremony
                        During the Renaissance in England, religious wedding ceremonies were
                not as commonplace as they are today.  A couple could exchange promises
                in front of witnesses (or often times privately) and this was considered a
                legally binding marriage in the eyes of the law.  The formal procedure for
                marriage was; after the couple announced their intent to wed, the church
                would read the Bans three times over a three week period.  Sometimes if time
                was of the essence (meaning the bride was already with child)  the bans may
                simply have been read once.  If no objections to the marriage arose, the
                couple would once again exchange consent or "vows" at the church door.
 
                        If the bride was a virgin her hands bare, if the bride had been widowed,
                she wore gloves. When people had arrived at the church door, men stood on
                the the right side and women on the left. In some areas the entire service was
                in Latin, in other regions only parts of the ceremony was in Latin, the others
                were spoken in the vernacular.  The couple would ask the couple to exchange
                their vows and next, the priest blessed the ring.  The priest sprinkled the ring
                with holy water and then the groom placed the ring first on his bride's
                thumb, then index  finger, next long finger.  The priest would then bless the
                couple and everyone entered the church  for the "bridal mass."
 
                       The Bridal Mass consisted of prayers, readings from the scripture and
                the bridal benediction.  This was followed by Holy Communion.  The priest
                might say, "I now pronounce you man and wife", but this was not yet
                widespread.  In German and French ceremonies the priest might say, May
                the God of Abraham, Isac and Jacob  unite you."
 
                        Here's a copy of a Wedding Ceremony--1662 Book of Prayers.  In
                remote areas and some areas of Scotland the Handfasting Ritual was
                performed, and is still celebrated by couples today as an alternative to a
                Religious ceremony.
 
                        After the celebratory party or feast there was the "bedding", the final
                stage to consummate the marriage. The Church adopted this tradition from
                the pagans and converted it from a legalizing act into a final blessing of the
                newly wed couple's matrimonial bed.
 
                 Interested in what Martin Luther had to
                 say about marriage and the role of women?
 
 
 

 

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