
The Sumptuary Laws dictated what could
be worn by married and
unmarried women in
the upper levels of society. These laws categorized the
gifts a fiancee gave his betrothed
into the "donatio" (the groom's dowry for
his bride) and the "mancia" (jewelry
given to the bride after consummating
the marriage).
These gifts grew to become the visible proof of what the bride
was bringing to
the union, and could also give the groom
the appearance of
being wealthier than in actuality. These gifts were not only a
matter of
economy between the two families, but also of the families' honor and class
standing.
Initially engagement jewelry took the form of a brooch or pin, and the
ring was saved for
marriage. For the lower classes, the ring often times was
carved from bone or was made from braided straw. It was common for
the
peasants to wear no ring at all (as a straw
band wouldn't hold up for long).
The wedding band was only worn by women, marking
them as unavailable
to other men and
potential suitors. The band symbolized endless
consistency, bringing
longevity to the union.
At the wedding reception, pieces of cake would sometimes be pushed
through the wedding
ring. A custom amongst the farming communities in
England was to drop the wedding
ring in a bucket of syllabub (a festive drink
of milk and wine). Participants would
then take turns with the ladle, and the
lucky recipient of the ladle containing the ring would be next at the altar.